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Father: Colorado shooting victim had ‘heart of gold’

Father of Alex Teves Speaks

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Tom Teves, left, with wife Caren Teves, speaks about their son Alex Teves, at the Arapahoe County Courthouse, Monday, July 23, 2012, in Centennial, Colo. Alex Teves was one of the 12 people killed in the shooting attack early Friday at an Aurora, Colo., theater during a showing of the Batman movie, “The Dark Knight Rises.”

Father of Alex Teves Speaks

The undated photo provided by the family shows Alex Teves. Teves, 24, was one of the victims killed in the Friday, July 20, 2012 movie theater shooting in Aurora, Colo. Launch slideshow »

An Arizona man who was among the Colorado movie theater shooting victims was cremated this week, as his father remembered him as having a gift for defusing tense situations and a "heart of gold."

Alex Teves and 11 others were shot and killed Friday in Aurora, Colo., at a midnight showing of the latest Batman movie, "The Dark Knight Rises."

Services were held Thursday in Denver for another victim, Micayla Medek, 23.

Teves, who grew up in Phoenix and graduated from an Arizona high school and college, died while shielding his girlfriend from the gunfire. His father, Tom Teves, said his wife did not get a chance to say goodbye before their son was cremated because he didn't want her to see the badly wounded body.

"He was one of the kindest kids who always gave of himself," Tom Teves told the Arizona Republic. "You won't find anyone who has a bad word to say about him, and that was true even before he died."

James Holmes is accused of opening fire on a theater, killing the dozen people and injuring 58. He is due to be formally charged at a court hearing scheduled Monday in Colorado.

Tom Teves said he was on vacation in Hawaii with his wife and two other sons when they got the news from Alex's girlfriend, who was hysterical. Alex Teves recently earned his master's degree in psychology and was planning to become a physical therapist, his father said.

The younger Teves served as a mentor at the University of Arizona in Tucson and at the University of Denver. One of the people he mentored contacted the family this week saying that Alex Teves had set him on the right path, changing his life.

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This undated photo provided by the family shows Jonathan T. Blunk, 26, of Aurora, Colo. with his two children. Blunk was one of the victims in the Friday, July 20, 2012 Aurora, Colo. movie theater shooting.

"Alex had the heart of a lion," his father said. "He had a heart of gold, too. He marched to the beat of his own drummer. He never was concerned about being cool."

Tom Teves added: "At 18, he was a better man than I am at 52. Even in death, he is teaching me."

At Medek's funeral, mourners wore pink ribbons, some with Hello Kitty faces on them, in honor of her fondness for the color and the character.

Her young second cousin, Kailyn Vigil, sobbed and some family members had to be supported as Medek's coffin was placed in the hearse.

Medek attended Aurora Community College and worked at a Subway sandwich shop. Family members described her as loving and independent-minded.

Visitation was held Thursday for theater victim Alex Sullivan, who was known as a gentle man with a glowing smile. His funeral will be private, and no details have been released.

Meanwhile, the body of a former Reno, Nev., resident who died in the shooting was being flown home to be buried.

The family of 26-year-old Navy veteran Jonathan Blunk said his body is to arrive Friday at the Reno-Tahoe International Airport, KOLO-TV reported. Blunk graduated from Reno's Hug High School in 2004.

His funeral is scheduled for Aug. 3 at the Mountain View Mortuary.

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